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Ejaculation - When and If

 
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When or do you ejaculate and how during a CP session
Before self masturbation
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
During self masturbation
7%
 7%  [ 3 ]
After self masturbation
46%
 46%  [ 19 ]
Before by someone else
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
During by someone else
4%
 4%  [ 2 ]
After by someone else
24%
 24%  [ 10 ]
Oral
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
Intercourse anal
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
Intercourse Vaginal
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
Don't ejaculate
17%
 17%  [ 7 ]
Total Votes : 41

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lovro



Joined: 19 Sep 2007
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 15, 2007 10:29 am    Post subject: Ejaculation - When and If Reply with quote

For my part I prefer to be masturbated or instructed to masturbate after having been spanked or caned, what's your preference?
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robfountain



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PostPosted: Mon Oct 15, 2007 7:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

is this really relevant? or even appropriate?
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CLANSMANCHRIS



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PostPosted: Mon Oct 15, 2007 7:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Surely to God, it is always better for the spankee to "inadvertently" ejaculate over the spanker's knee - as the former's cock rubs against the latter - so that, in turn, the spanker can remind the spankee that "spunk, like medicine, should never be spilt, only given to a boy down his throat or to a man up his arse"!!!

Surely the question to all spankees should be, are you a boy or a man?!
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cpwhitelongsox



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 7:50 am    Post subject: ejeculate Reply with quote

often it does not happen with a sir but often ive been told to jerk off after a thrashing,or both myself and a sir had mutual mastubation and few times ive been on my knees sucking off my sir
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PrivateDavId



Joined: 07 Jun 2006
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Location: West Country

PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

CLANSMANCHRIS wrote:
in turn, the spanker can remind the spankee that "spunk, like medicine, should never be spilt, only given to a boy down his throat or to a man up his arse"!!!

Surely the question to all spankees should be, are you a boy or a man?!


Surely the question to all spankees should be if they want sexual activity after or as part of the CP/discipline or not , The fact that the BD site clips (bar a few more overt videos) are of the whackings and not jerk off shots or sexual penetration scenes indicates for most of us we can get a level of satisfaction from the CP side alone.

It does seem some givers cannot accept that a guy who bends over and take a hiding may not actually be sexually a "Sub" and up for any use the giver wants to do or want more than just the hiding. I know there will be guys who do fufil the sub role and would expect/want the giver to take and use them as they see fit but unless the BD filming sessions end in off camera mass explosive sexual frenzy afterwards then the many guys who have given and taken CP in the hundreds of clips filmed can separate the two aspects.
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CLANSMANCHRIS



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PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 11:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Agreed PrivateDavid,

I persoanlly enjoy receiving spankings from older men (i.e., 40+) and giving spankings to younger guys (i.e,. under 40) without the need for either the spanker or spankee to ejaculate. I was merely pointing out that if the spankee does inadvertently ejaculate over the spanker's lap, the spanker may - with the spankee's consent - care to remind him what should not be spilt but either orally or rectally deposited.
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Richard



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PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 4:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sorry, but do we need this
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davel



Joined: 13 Mar 2006
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Location: South Wales

PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 11:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is something very special about an after spank wank . It is the climax ( sorry ) of sexual perfection in many ways and I love it and love it to be done to me by the spanker . Mind then again I class myself as a bottom ( cp wise ) and not a sub , there is a difference
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boden



Joined: 19 Mar 2005
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 25, 2007 12:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

For me the act of being beaten is intensely sexual.

Before I discovered other guys to spank and cane me I would use a large wooden bat on my buttocks as I masturbated and the pleasure was hugely intensified for both activities.

Sometimes I have been masturbated by my master after a beating and once I have done it to myself whilst taking a bare bottom spanking.

The best was being spanked and wanked by each of my master's hands at the same time. Perfection!
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Dawson



Joined: 19 Oct 2006
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Location: Central England

PostPosted: Thu Oct 25, 2007 3:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Could I make three points on this interesting topic?

1. Why do some people seem offended by it? It's a perfectly valid subject; surely no-one is suggesting that there is NOT a sexual element to these activities.

2. In my case (and I don't think I'm unusual!!), arousal at the merest hint of CP was automatic in my teens and 20s. There has been a decline since, but that's a decline in obvious excitement, rather than real, internal excitement. (Sorry if that's vague. CP still produces a huge response; it's just not always as obvious as it was several decades ago!)
Now, CP activity (reading, watching, doing, whatever) is intensely exciting, whether or not it provokes an actual erection. I'm not an expert of any kind, but could it be that endorphins or something are producing a feeling of exhilaration, and that has become more important than the response we felt in earlier years? Or am I talking rubbish? (Please note that this does not prevent me from ticking Box 3 above!!)

3. It is gratifying for the other person when there are the signs of excitement in the other guy. I well remember, ages ago, giving a long OTK spanking to a guy who turned out to be a vicar of some sort. When his excitement "reached boiling point", with no manual assistance form either of us, it was extremely exciting. (Though perhaps the stains on his sofa needed some explanation!!)

4. (I know I said three points, but this is an important after-thought.) Clips of Boden receiving CP (on another website, which, presumably, we should not mention here) are among the most exciting I've seen. (They even rival the classic Peter clips in the BD Challenge archives.) When are we going to see him in some BD clips? Or does he already feature in them under another name?
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lovro



Joined: 19 Sep 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 1:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Interestingly 9 months after asking the question, although there have only been 32 votes, masturbation is the 100% preference if one wishes to ejaculate, 50% of whom prefere self masturbation. Any analysts out thier who can suggest why rather than oral or intercourse?
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badboy



Joined: 14 Jun 2004
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 10:10 pm    Post subject: My preferences re ejaculation Reply with quote

Hi:

When I’m getting spanked I prefer to be spanked and jacked off at the same time with the session ending when I cum. Throughout the spanking I like the spanker to vary the intensity of spanking and jacking so that the overall experience varies between sexual fun and punishment. Sometimes the spanker might decide to spank me very lightly and jack me off very intensely so that I experience pure sexual pleasure but sometimes he might decide to mostly ignore my cock so that the pain of a hard spanking is the main focus. Also a skillful spanker can combine intense jacking with intense spanking so that you do not know if you are going to cum or cry!

The only choices from this poll that I have not found greatly fun are any that involve ejaculation BEFORE the CP session. A few times I accidentally ejaculated immediately before the spanking and that made the spanking completely non-sexual and truly agonizing. It was quite an experience! Interestingly there seem to be very few spanking videos where a guy is spanked immediately after ejaculation but at http://www.reluctantyoungmen.com/The%20Assistant.htm the video “Looking at Porn for the Last Time” shows this rare scenario.


BTW I cannot figure out how to vote on this system!
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e14master



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PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 9:12 am    Post subject: ejeculation Reply with quote

I have always enjoyed caning/spanking.....................onceI am satisfied the boy has been dealt with I like to tease boy over desk, and milk him orif 2 boys ,the same face down
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